Push a stream of air from your throat through your open mouth. No tongue or lip contact.

Americans pronounce highlights as HAHY-lahyts (/ˈhaɪˌlaɪts/). Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "She highlights her favorite quotes and passages in the book".
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2 syllables, 6 sounds. Tap a syllable to jump to its row, then explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
Place the tip of your tongue against the alveolar ridge just behind your top front teeth, the same contact point as /t/, /d/, and /n/. The difference is what happens to the air: for /l/, you let it flow continuously around the <em>sides</em> of the tongue (that's why /l/ is called a lateral). Turn your voice on the whole time. Lips stay relaxed, no rounding or flaring. For the Dark L variant at the end of a syllable, also pull the back of the tongue up and back toward the soft palate.

Start with your jaw open wide and your tongue resting low and flat. Glide the front of your tongue up toward the roof of your mouth as your jaw closes halfway.
Touch the tip or front edge of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Keep your jaw relaxed. Stop the air, then release with a puff.

Place your tongue tip near the roof of your mouth behind your top teeth. Push air through the narrow gap. No voicing.

The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch HAHY — keep everything else short and quick.