Push a stream of air from your throat through your open mouth. No tongue or lip contact.

Americans pronounce hilarious as huh-LAIR-ee-uhs (/həˈlɛriəs/). Stress falls on the second syllable — keep everything else short and quick.
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4 syllables, 7 sounds. Tap a syllable to jump to its row, then explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
Place the tip of your tongue against the alveolar ridge just behind your top front teeth, the same contact point as /t/, /d/, and /n/. The difference is what happens to the air: for /l/, you let it flow continuously around the <em>sides</em> of the tongue (that's why /l/ is called a lateral). Turn your voice on the whole time. Lips stay relaxed, no rounding or flaring. For the Dark L variant at the end of a syllable, also pull the back of the tongue up and back toward the soft palate.

Start with the 'eh' vowel mouth position. Pull the tongue back and up while flaring the lips for the 'r'.
The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
Stress falls on the second syllable, not the others. Stretch LAIR — keep everything else short and quick.
Don't pronounce the first syllable too fully. The unstressed syllable reduces to a schwa — the lazy "uh" sound — in casual speech.
Americans use a relaxed retroflex R — the tongue curls back rather than rolling. The R is one continuous sound with the vowel before it, not two separate sounds.