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Americans pronounce modify as MAH-duh-fahy (/ˈmɑdəˌfaɪ/). In "modify", the "t" between vowels sounds like a quick "d" — the tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth. This is called the Flap T, and it's one of the defining features of casual American English. So instead of MAH·tuh·fahy, you get MAH·duh·FAHY. Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "He filed a petition to modify the child custody arrangement".
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The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "modify", the "t" between vowels sounds like a quick "d" — the tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth. /t/ or /d/ becomes a quick tap [ɾ] — sounds like a soft D. The tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth.
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch MAH — keep everything else short and quick.
Don't pronounce the first syllable too fully. The unstressed syllable reduces to a schwa — the lazy "uh" sound — in casual speech.