Place your tongue tip near the roof of your mouth behind your top teeth. Push air through the narrow gap. No voicing.

Americans pronounce stakeholders as STAYK-hohl-derz (/ˈsteɪkˌhoʊldərz/). The L in "stakeholders" is a dark L — the back of the tongue rises toward the soft palate, adding a small "uh" quality before the L. This is called the Dark L vs Light L, and it's one of the defining features of casual American English. It comes out as STAYK·HOHL·derz. Stress falls on the first syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "The stakeholders have approved the budget for the upcoming quarter" or "We need to coordinate with stakeholders before finalizing the proposal" — more examples below.
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Place your tongue tip near the roof of your mouth behind your top teeth. Push air through the narrow gap. No voicing.

Touch the tip or front edge of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth. Keep your jaw relaxed. Stop the air, then release with a puff.

Start with your jaw slightly open and the front of your tongue forward and slightly up. Glide upward, your jaw closes a little more and your tongue arches higher toward the roof of the mouth.
Raise the back of your tongue to touch the soft palate (velum). Stop the air, then release.

Push a stream of air from your throat through your open mouth. No tongue or lip contact.

Start with your mouth slightly open, then close your jaw slightly as your lips round. Shift your tongue back slightly, then stretch the back up.
Keep the tongue tip down and pull the back of the tongue up toward the throat. The 'dark' sound comes from the back.

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The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
The L in "stakeholders" is a dark L — the back of the tongue rises toward the soft palate, adding a small "uh" quality before the L. Dark L adds a small schwa-like "uh" before the L. The back of the tongue lifts toward the soft palate.
In "stakeholders", the "d" is not released — the articulators get into position but hold without the burst of air. Air stops but there's no release burst — the articulators hold position.
Stress falls on the first syllable, not the others. Stretch STAYK — keep everything else short and quick.
Americans use a relaxed retroflex R — the tongue curls back rather than rolling. The R is one continuous sound with the vowel before it, not two separate sounds.