Lift your bottom lip to touch the very bottom of your top front teeth. Blow air through this contact point without voicing.

Americans pronounce facilities as fuh-SIH-luh-teez (/fəˈsɪləɾiz/). In "facilities", the "t" between vowels sounds like a quick "d" — the tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth. This is called the Flap T, a hallmark of natural-sounding American speech. It comes out as fuh·SIH·luh·teez. Stress falls on the second syllable — keep everything else short and quick. You'll hear it in sentences like "OSHA regulations require certain safety measures in manufacturing facilities".
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4 syllables, 9 sounds. Tap a syllable to jump to its row, then explore each sound's mouth shape and how it's made.
Place the tip of your tongue against the alveolar ridge just behind your top front teeth, the same contact point as /t/, /d/, and /n/. The difference is what happens to the air: for /l/, you let it flow continuously around the <em>sides</em> of the tongue (that's why /l/ is called a lateral). Turn your voice on the whole time. Lips stay relaxed, no rounding or flaring. For the Dark L variant at the end of a syllable, also pull the back of the tongue up and back toward the soft palate.

Relax your lips, jaw, and tongue completely. Drop your jaw slightly and keep the tongue neutral.
Quickly bounce the front of your tongue against the roof of your mouth. Don't stop the airflow — just a quick tap.

Pull the corners of your lips back slightly. Arch the middle-front of your tongue high toward the roof of the mouth.

Same position as S, but add vocal cord vibration. Feel the buzz.

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The textbook way isn't wrong — it's just not how anyone actually says it.
In "facilities", the "t" between vowels sounds like a quick "d" — the tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth. /t/ or /d/ becomes a quick tap [ɾ] — sounds like a soft D. The tongue briefly taps the ridge behind the upper teeth.
Stress falls on the second syllable, not the others. Stretch SIH — keep everything else short and quick.
Don't pronounce the first syllable too fully. The unstressed syllable reduces to a schwa — the lazy "uh" sound — in casual speech.